ABOUT
Hi, I’m Aidan.
I founded Quiet Ally, a New York HR and employee relations advisory firm that works both sides of the table: individuals dealing with a difficult situation at work, and organizations trying to get a high-stakes decision right. Before that, I spent over 15 years as an HR and employee relations leader.
I’ve been on the receiving end of a workplace process, not just the one running it. I got through it, and I’m clear about why: I understood how it works. Most people don’t have that advantage.
There’s a gap between the people making workplace decisions and the people living with them. Quiet Ally exists to close it. Discreet, strategic, and in your corner.
“Write it down the day it happens. Not the week after, and not the version you wish you’d said.”
Most outcomes are decided before anyone is in the room. At Apple Inc. (US and UK), ZocDoc, and Paradigm Health, I sat on the HR and ER side of investigations, performance decisions, accommodations, and exits. The decisions that held up had the same things in common: the rationale came before the action, the documentation was consistent, and somebody checked the decision before it was final. The ones that fell apart skipped a step. I call it the Quiet Baseline, and it’s the spine of everything Quiet Ally publishes.
I hold an MPA in Human Resource Management from Baruch College and a B.S. from John Jay College of Criminal Justice (CUNY), both summa cum laude. I’m a member of the Association of Workplace Investigators.
15+ years as an HR and ER leader.
BACKGROUND
WHAT I BRING
Both sides of the table.
For Organizations
I work with HR leaders, in-house counsel, and founders on investigations that hold up, performance actions that are consistent and documented, and accommodation processes that work for the business.
For Individuals
I help you work out what’s really happening, plan the conversation that matters, get an accommodation taken seriously, or leave on your terms.
For Both
Every engagement starts with the full picture. I do the reading before I do the talking, and the work is scoped in writing and counsel-ready from day one. If it turns out you need a lawyer, I’ll say so.
WHO WE SERVE
Quiet Ally lives up to its name
I work with anyone navigating a high-stakes workplace situation, and I’m especially committed to people who are often underserved at work: LGBTQ+ employees, BIPOC professionals, disabled workers, and anyone who has ever felt like the system wasn’t built with them in mind.
Quiet Ally is LGBTQ+-owned. It’s why I take the individual side as seriously as the organizational one. I know what it’s like to be the one waiting on a decision, and how differently it goes when someone in your corner understands the mechanics.
A lot of us learned early to read the room and keep our heads down. I’d rather you walked in with a plan.
Ready to talk?
It starts with a free call, no pitch. You tell me what’s happening, and I tell you whether I can help.
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